The sneaky reason you don’t want sex

We live on a polarity planet of contrasting and complementary energies. An easy way to describe these energies in this context is feminine and masculine. It’s necessary to have both in the same person but also to have both in intimate relationships. What happens in a lot of relationships is that there is too much masculine energy for a truly sexy experience. For example, if both people are hustling and producing and directing, neither one is open to receive. There needs to be harmony to cultivate the polarity and tension necessary for the alchemical magic that is sex.

One way to solve this is through tantric practices where couples practice reverence and even worship each other as deities. Sacred ritual becomes part of foreplay along with meditation and visualization. Reverence, anointing with oil, massage and eye gazing in a sensual setting with candles and the right music all become part of making the experience as exciting and rewarding as possible.

It’s said that the couple (or solo person) who can really nail this (ha) can create and manifest using the most potent energy we have. The take away is that really if you’re not getting excited by sex with your partner there might need to be some goddess worship going down. :)